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Building Resilience

Rapid response work is demanding. Building resilience—for individuals and the network—is essential for sustainability.

Warning signs:

  • Exhaustion that doesn’t improve with rest
  • Cynicism or hopelessness
  • Decreased effectiveness
  • Physical symptoms (headaches, insomnia, illness)
  • Emotional numbness or volatility
  • Withdrawal from the work or relationships

Be honest with yourself. These signs mean you need to make changes.

Set boundaries:

  • Define your availability hours
  • Take days off
  • Say no when you need to
  • Don’t check channels constantly

Maintain other parts of your life:

  • Relationships outside the network
  • Hobbies and interests
  • Physical activity
  • Rest and sleep

Process emotions:

  • Talk about difficult experiences
  • Journal or reflect
  • Seek support when needed
  • It’s okay to feel things

Daily:

  • Adequate sleep
  • Nutritious food
  • Movement/exercise
  • Connection with others

Weekly:

  • Time away from the work
  • Activities that bring joy
  • Meaningful rest
  • Check in with yourself

As needed:

  • Professional support (therapy, counseling)
  • Time off
  • Adjusting your role
  • Stepping back temporarily

Immediately:

  • Take a break before debriefing
  • Drink water, eat something
  • Physical movement (walk, stretch)
  • Connect with someone supportive

Within 24-48 hours:

  • Debrief with team
  • Process what happened
  • Acknowledge the difficulty
  • Get rest

Ongoing:

  • Notice how you’re doing
  • Seek support if struggling
  • Be patient with yourself
  • The impact may be delayed

Distribute responsibilities:

  • No one person should do everything
  • Rotate demanding roles
  • Backup for every position
  • Mutual support

Cover for each other:

  • When someone needs a break, others step up
  • No guilt for taking time off
  • Flexibility in scheduling
  • Appreciation for those who cover

Normalize:

  • Taking breaks
  • Asking for help
  • Saying no
  • Having limits

Discourage:

  • Martyrdom
  • Competition over who works hardest
  • Guilt-tripping
  • Ignoring warning signs

Regular team check-ins:

  • How is everyone doing?
  • What’s working?
  • What’s not working?
  • What do we need?

Individual check-ins:

  • One-on-one conversations
  • How are you really?
  • What support do you need?
  • What changes would help?

Acknowledge successes:

  • Effective responses
  • New members trained
  • Protocols improved
  • Problems solved

Thank people:

  • Specific appreciation
  • Public recognition (when appropriate)
  • Private thanks
  • Note contributions

Avoid single points of failure:

  • Multiple people know how things work
  • Documentation of processes
  • Cross-training
  • Leadership development

Plan for transitions:

  • People will move on
  • Transfer knowledge
  • Train replacements
  • Maintain continuity

Document:

  • Protocols and procedures
  • Lessons learned
  • Contact information
  • Historical context

Store securely:

  • Encrypted, accessible to leadership
  • Updated regularly
  • Backed up
  • Transferable

External changes:

  • Policy shifts
  • New threats
  • Community changes
  • Political environment

Internal changes:

  • Membership fluctuations
  • Leadership transitions
  • Capacity changes
  • Lessons learned

Be flexible:

  • Review and update regularly
  • Adapt to new realities
  • Don’t cling to what doesn’t work
  • Learn continuously

Secondary trauma (or vicarious trauma) comes from exposure to others’ traumatic experiences. In rapid response, you witness fear, family separation, and injustice.

  • Intrusive thoughts about incidents
  • Avoidance of reminders
  • Hypervigilance
  • Changes in worldview
  • Difficulty feeling safe
  • Numbness or disconnection

Acknowledge it:

  • This is real and valid
  • It doesn’t mean you’re weak
  • It means you’re human

Get support:

  • Talk to others who understand
  • Professional help if needed
  • Peer support within the network

Practice ongoing care:

  • Not just after incidents
  • Regular practices that help
  • Build resilience before you need it

Resilience isn’t just individual—it’s collective:

  • We take care of each other
  • We create systems of support
  • We build cultures of care
  • We’re in this together

Create structures:

  • Buddy systems
  • Regular check-ins
  • Debrief protocols
  • Support contacts

Train for support:

  • Active listening
  • When to refer to professionals
  • How to support without draining yourself

Connect with:

  • Mental health professionals who understand activism
  • Community healers and counselors
  • Support groups
  • Wellness resources

Listen:

  • Create space for them to share
  • Don’t judge or minimize
  • Acknowledge the difficulty

Offer concrete support:

  • “Can I cover your shift?”
  • “Would it help to talk?”
  • “Is there something specific I can do?”

Respect their autonomy:

  • They know what they need
  • Offer, don’t push
  • Follow their lead

Escalate if:

  • They express thoughts of self-harm
  • They’re unable to function
  • They’re isolating completely
  • Professional help seems needed

How to escalate:

  • Express concern directly
  • Offer to help connect with resources
  • Involve leadership if appropriate
  • Don’t abandon them

This is a marathon, not a sprint:

  • You can’t help if you burn out
  • Sustainable effort beats intense burnout
  • Plan for years, not just weeks
  • Develop new leaders
  • Train others to do your role
  • Create systems that outlast individuals
  • Think about what comes next

Connect to your purpose:

  • Why did you start this?
  • What keeps you going?
  • Who are you doing this for?
  • What victories have you seen?

Maintaining hope is active:

  • Celebrate progress
  • Remember what’s possible
  • Connect with others
  • Take breaks that renew you
  • I have defined availability hours
  • I take regular days off
  • I maintain relationships outside the network
  • I have activities that bring me joy
  • I know the signs of burnout in myself
  • I have someone I can talk to
  • We rotate demanding roles
  • We have backups for every position
  • We check in on each other
  • We celebrate wins
  • We normalize taking breaks
  • We debrief after difficult incidents
  • We document our processes
  • We train multiple people in key roles
  • We plan for transitions
  • We adapt to changes
  • We maintain institutional memory
  • We build for the long term